Why she doing this? Should I be concerned? Honestly I really love her and she knows this! What should I do? Being turned down sucks either way. I'm one of them. Rejecting someone's love interest for you is evil but it's the necessary evil. Ignoring just give that person false hope and only thinking that you're playing hard to get. I got a project I'm working on now, I can't get the ice to melt at all been 6 months. I prefer a direct answer.
Hey, but that's just me. It's not rare. I have literally had men spit on me for saying no. I've been grabbed and shaked and all kg those things and I'm not rude to guys that come up to. Unless they start asking me sexual questions. Maybe you just have bad luck with men period. All I'm hearing is this is from you. I don't think inhale bad luck, as this HD what other women go through as well.
All of my sisters and cousins, coworkers ALL of us have experienced this once in our life. It's why we give out fake numbers. Ita why we try to pretend we do not hear you. I prefer to be left alone. I don't care gown fine you think someone is, you don't have a right to them or their number. No women owes you that. MasterVulgar I get what you're saying about people wasting your time but people cannot waste your time. What if you've said that multiple times?
I had sex with a guy, it lasted a year. I told him he's great but that I didn't want sex anymore because he didn't want to date. He persisted anyway despite me saying no. I got tired of being nice and I just told him to leave me alone. I didn't need his fake friendship. Aloneyloneloner wow I'm very sorry to hear that and all i can say is next time make sure they loves you not want to use you as have sex with you and just keep having sex with you and nothing more and by the way you the right girl I'm looking for someone who wants to hang out or go out with me go to the movies and stuff lol i hope we could meet.
It's not when guys continue to pursue her and try to change her mind. Some guys never listen. And sadly she doesn't owe you an explaination because all it will do is turn into an argument about her standards.
I had to take these measures after I did what you did. And all it did was stress me out, made me sick physically and emotionally, got my heart broken, made me insecure and have doubts and most importantly made me lose friends and a good reputation with people.
I no longer do this. I now tell them, I am not interested. And if they can't handle it, I tell them that I never asked for their opinion about my choices, and walk away. Sometimes, you do need to make those moves because sadly, you would NEVER know who he really is until you start removing yourself from the equation. Just be yourself and you are less likely to have this problem and stop pursuing people you don't know KNOW. Why people pursue people their not compatible with is beyond me.
All looks aside. Darknut I only tell people I'm interested when that is exactly what I want. If not, I move on. Don't need to play games with people. The problem lay with people who play games with me.
Honesty is the best policy. Meanwhile you hurt because of it. Moose2coolvargas true, this should be on the list as it happened to me several times. And by strange i mean avoid him. The "hard to get" isn't a theory. If it was, none of those "how to get your man to go wild over you" shitty writings would include it. But since they do, it's quite legit.
And as long as it is legit, men will always consider it a posibility, and act accordingly. So ironically you're blaming guys for problems made by girls. You are the passive agressive ones, you play hard to get.
There's no "he" in there, you know. So why don't you girls do the most simple thing in the world and tell him you're not interrested? It takes you 10 seconds and solves a lot of problems!
But thats the problem: I tell them repeatedly Im not interested. What more can I possibly say? There's no trick or steps to make someone like u or whatever those pathetic article seem to "gurantee". They get paid to write those stuff. Thats how I look it. NourSy I actually thought this was a new post then wrote what I did then scrolled down and realized it was an old post lol.
Girls seem to often confuse and blend the line between being civil and physical attraction. I've seen girls on this site seem to think it's ok to ignore and guy and return his messages or speak to him because she did not find him physically attractive. Many girls think it's also ok not even to give common courtosy of leaving the door open for you if you are 3 steps behind them to get into a building or even greet you good morning if you are not attractive.
In short the female gender has a lot of work to in cleaning up it's behavoir. Many women today but their inner personality is horrible. So while men have no problem sleeping with them they will not commit. Hence, women's complaint of guys wanting to find a relationship with them.
Even the good looking guys women pine for notice the way they treat less attractive men and they easily realize if they won't born with their looks and height that could of been them. So some of them are weary of women today too. IamLouise guys do the same shit.
I've sent countless messages to 'hot' guys, who never respond. And you know what I do. Focus on the ones that did. They don't owe me anything. And nor do women. Yes, she gave you her phone number, answered your message, or came on a first date. However, it is a mistake to believe that this indicates her interest in you. She might pay some attention to get to know you better. If a girl ignores a guy, not answering, not responding, without getting in touch, then, most likely, she just wants to stop communicating.
Many girls are quite touchy. There are those who are offended for any reason. How strong is her resentment? It depends on how the girl is ignoring you.
Once the problem is found, you need to fix it as soon as possible and apologize. This is why the woman ignores you. It looks a little cruel and not right. Try not to take it personally because she probably behaves the same way with other men. If your girl ignores you, there is undoubtedly a reason behind it, and if she does not tell you why, it is up to you to find out and make amends.
Several reasons could make a woman choose to ignore someone. Have a look at the most common reasons, and try to figure out if any of these applies to your situation. You chat with her all the time, even late at night, because you like her. However, you are too nervous to ask her out.
If she likes you , she will be patient, but if you show no signs of asking her out, she will reduce the frequency of contact with you because she sees no point in waiting for you to make a move. When your behavior with her is not consistent, she might feel confused. For instance, you show a clear interest in her, but when she starts flirting back, you go mellow on her. She might think she got you wrong and that you are not genuinely interested.
She might back off and cut off contact with you. Perhaps she was being polite when she started talking to you as a friend or a colleague. You probably took that as a sign of interest and got too involved. She could be ignoring you to make her disinterest evident and avoid giving you any wrong signals. A few weeks of chatting and interacting, and you are now dependent on her for your happiness. You need her love, attention, and time. Your over-dependent and needy nature must have put her off, and now, she prefers to maintain distance from you.
If she started ignoring you after you suggested making your relationship official, you probably asked too soon. She may like you but not enough to commit to you. You might want to give her some time and not push her to do something she is not ready for yet. When you got together, there was that initial rush and excitement that kept her coming back to you. But once that faded, she probably started getting bored with you. She now feels there is nothing more you can add to her life and no excitement left.
She is busy juggling her responsibilities at home and work and has no time to interact with you.
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